The Impossible Dream
About three years ago I realised that I had achieved all the goals I had set myself.
I was goal-less and drifting, so to speak.
About three years ago I realised that I had achieved all the goals I had set myself.
I was goal-less and drifting, so to speak.
For instance........
I had set out to create an organisation that taught people to feel good and strive for more in their lives, using firewalking as the vehicle for this change.
Achieved it.
Set out to raise over a million pounds a year for charity every year from 2000 onwards.
Achieved it.
Set out to train people who were unemployed or recovering from drug addiction to work within my organisation. Aimed to equip them with the confidence and skills to strike out on their own and set up their own business's as well.
Achieved it. (Actually over-shot my target on that one on a couple of counts.....they know who I am talking about)
That was three years ago.
Three very hectic years in which I seem to have spent most of my time looking at my feet rather than at the horizon.
So, I have been doing a lot of searching of late.
I have been asking myself "If ANYTHING were possible and I knew I could NOT fail, exactly what would I set out to bring into my life?"
This question I ask myself reflects one of my core beliefs.
There is NO SUCH THING as either 'success' or 'failure'.
There are merely RESULTS.
That's all there is.
Sometimes we get the results we like and we call it SUCCESS.
Other times we get results we don't like and we call it FAILURE.
I will let you into a little secret here. The universe does not give a rats ass about you. It does not care WHAT you call the results you get. Only YOU do that.
This is a lesson I learnt from reading a biography of Thomas Edison, the famous American inventor. He was in the process of developing the incandescent lightbulb. He had tried thousands of different materials to make it but without success...yet.
A reporter asked him "What does it feel like to have FAILED so many times in a row?"
Edison looked at him for a long minute and said slowly "You clearly do not understand. I have not FAILED. I have simply discovered many, many ways of NOT achieving SUCCESS...yet."
I love that attitude.
That's why I ask myself "what would I set out to achieve if I knew I could NOT fail?"
Because I know I cannot fail because 'failing' is as much an illusion as 'succeeding.'
Its just a label I put on my results.
I firmly believe that there are only TWO sorts of experiences in life.
You could call them WINNING experiences and LEARNING experiences.
It can all drop into one box or the other.
You either get a result you like and say you WON or you get a result you are not satisfied with. Well, that ones a LEARN.
You find out what actions that needed fine tuning and you set out on the path again armed with superior knowledge this time around.
In fact - and this is just my belief - the only way you can really LOSE is to NOT take the learn on board.
Dont throw away the experience without extracting the'learn' from it.
After all......you have just paid what I call the 'Idiot Tax' on the experience by not getting the result you wanted.
Take the 'learn' and move on.
I had set out to create an organisation that taught people to feel good and strive for more in their lives, using firewalking as the vehicle for this change.
Achieved it.
Set out to raise over a million pounds a year for charity every year from 2000 onwards.
Achieved it.
Set out to train people who were unemployed or recovering from drug addiction to work within my organisation. Aimed to equip them with the confidence and skills to strike out on their own and set up their own business's as well.
Achieved it. (Actually over-shot my target on that one on a couple of counts.....they know who I am talking about)
That was three years ago.
Three very hectic years in which I seem to have spent most of my time looking at my feet rather than at the horizon.
So, I have been doing a lot of searching of late.
I have been asking myself "If ANYTHING were possible and I knew I could NOT fail, exactly what would I set out to bring into my life?"
This question I ask myself reflects one of my core beliefs.
There is NO SUCH THING as either 'success' or 'failure'.
There are merely RESULTS.
That's all there is.
Sometimes we get the results we like and we call it SUCCESS.
Other times we get results we don't like and we call it FAILURE.
I will let you into a little secret here. The universe does not give a rats ass about you. It does not care WHAT you call the results you get. Only YOU do that.
This is a lesson I learnt from reading a biography of Thomas Edison, the famous American inventor. He was in the process of developing the incandescent lightbulb. He had tried thousands of different materials to make it but without success...yet.
A reporter asked him "What does it feel like to have FAILED so many times in a row?"
Edison looked at him for a long minute and said slowly "You clearly do not understand. I have not FAILED. I have simply discovered many, many ways of NOT achieving SUCCESS...yet."
I love that attitude.
That's why I ask myself "what would I set out to achieve if I knew I could NOT fail?"
Because I know I cannot fail because 'failing' is as much an illusion as 'succeeding.'
Its just a label I put on my results.
I firmly believe that there are only TWO sorts of experiences in life.
You could call them WINNING experiences and LEARNING experiences.
It can all drop into one box or the other.
You either get a result you like and say you WON or you get a result you are not satisfied with. Well, that ones a LEARN.
You find out what actions that needed fine tuning and you set out on the path again armed with superior knowledge this time around.
In fact - and this is just my belief - the only way you can really LOSE is to NOT take the learn on board.
Dont throw away the experience without extracting the'learn' from it.
After all......you have just paid what I call the 'Idiot Tax' on the experience by not getting the result you wanted.
Take the 'learn' and move on.